It seems there are two distinctly different conversations going on here, one makes sense the other one is so far from sense i can't even believe it is going on by adults.
The first one:
a new site was started and joined by people that felt that STR was no longer for them. OK, things were said, feelings got hurt, difference of opinion. I have no problem with anyones point of view regarding this issue. In fact in relative terms it seems healthy, both sides are able to state and defend their feelings. In addition it is absolutely the right of the governing body of this site to decide what can be advertised here and what cannot, even if it is another forum (and truth be told I am a proud member of both, and MTBR for that matter), but i respect the rules at both and have no animosity towards anyone regarding those rules.
WHAT I HAVE A HUGE PROBLEM WITH:
I cannot believe that people here who banded together to help someone who's life was devistated in a fire now have the nerve to second guess that decison! Are you kidding me? Does it matter if he was finacially able or not? Did you ask for his credit report first? Or an income statement to base whether or not you were going to do it? Of course not, you did it out of the goodness of your heart...then. Now because he say's something you don't agree with your questioning whether or not he appreciated that gesture? First of all, if my girlfriend is upset and i buy her flowers it is to make her feel better, not because she cant afford to buy flowers herself. Whether or not he could afford to buy his own bike should have NOTHING to do with the gesture that was made. Do you all feel better now? Did questioniong his integrity somehow make you feel better? Does anyone not think that gesture was not appreciated? Honestly, regardless of some other site, calling people names, whatever, I am horrified to see that some would sink so low as to bring that up. Isn't ANYTHING sacred anymore? You did something good, should have left it at that. Or because you did something nice that he didn't ask for does he now owe you all his life or undying gratitude? Should he never be able to speak his mind because of the debt you all now have hanging over him? If i was Sladnas i would never forgive some of you.
Grow the **** up!