word choice was poor and i do apologize for that...for my own peace of mind. why do you guys think i care about what you think of me? i understand the word is quite inappropriate but think about this....what have some of you(males) called others(males)? are no words comparable? and if any are, i bet none of you would have said anything if i had said so and so is an asshole/prick/etc. Carry on.