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10-01-2007, 02:57 PM
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My weekend v. will it ever end
Friday is move day (getting a divorce).
- Picked up truck 45 minutes late (they didnt' have one) - Gf's exhusband wont give her the stuff from storage because I'm there. - I drive away and 20 minutes later it's outside so I can come back. Doesn't want me there at the NOW EMPTY STORAGE UNIT. - Pack truck 100% full realize I need to come back Sat. - Barely make it in time to get keys to new apartment. Saturday - return to get stuff to find soon EX has taken sharpie to bed sheets and expensive comforter, headboard of my beautiful sleigh bed and all of the flat surfaces of my computer desk. - wife interrogates my friends and lets them know what kind of guy they are hanging out with. They stand there and take it and later laugh it off. - daughter crying her ass off knowing something is wrong. (saddest part of it all) - wife slashed the front tire on my mountain bike Sunday - pickup daughter and wife keys my car while i'm not looking - wife chases after gf thinking she went to train station (she's not with me) - wife says she is "going to get everything she can" - we lose keys to new apartment - electricity is on but gas isn't (noone to come out) - phone cant be connected because prev. tenant got evicted and never turned phone off. - can't get cable (same reason) - post office change of address form is wrong (apartment gave us the wrong address initially) - boss had me come from downtown although there is only a couple hours left of the day, I'm sitting here doing nothing instead of sitting at home doing nothing. Things that HAVE gone right this weekend. - I've just recieved a 100 pack of Derby double edge razor blades for my DE razor. - new LG side-by-side fridge keeps the beer very cold! That pretty much sums up my weekend. I leave you with this.... Why does divorce cost so much?????? . . . . . . . . because it's WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!!!
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10-01-2007, 03:00 PM
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She slashed the front tyre of your bike?! Like they said in Pulp Fiction - you dont mess with another mans bike. You jsut dont do it. Or was it his automobile?!
Thank God for the LG fridge and some ice cold tinnies. Hang in there man - there's little that time and money wont fix 
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10-01-2007, 03:01 PM
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sucks about the crazy wife, but i have to ask you this... after getting out of a relationship like that, why bother jumping into another one AND moving in with her? doesn't make sense to me
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Schecky (10-01-2007),
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10-01-2007, 03:10 PM
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I need a tow truck ASAP
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10-01-2007, 03:21 PM
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pretty close. My wife and I are total opposites and my gf and I are identicle. We enjoy the same hobbies, music, food etc... we are able to communicate 100%. My soon ex-wife, well, doesnt like my hobbies, has no hobbies of her own, hates all my friends, doesnt like the same food etc... total opposite. My wife farts in front of me and others, goes to bathroom with door wide open while i'm eating 30 feet away in living room, burps and belches in public, and the list goes on. I made the mistake of getting married for the sake of getting married. My gf and I moved in together and wont be getting married for a long time. We keep money seperate and split the bills down the middle. I could go on trying to justify everything but anyone who's been in a marriage that both parties are unhappy are the only people that can truely understand. BUT... and there's always a "BUT".. I don't regret having a daughter with my wife. My daughter is very important to me and will always be #1 in my life even if my wife isnt with me and seeing eye to eye. I will take care of my daughter.
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10-01-2007, 03:28 PM
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 ..but looks like your heart and mind are in the right place with your daughter! 
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10-01-2007, 03:34 PM
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yep. I had a wonderfull day wtih my daughter yesterday after I picked her up. Normally she gets scared in my mustang from the sound and noise but was calm and relaxed. We played hide-and-go-seek and drew in a coloring book, put money in her piggy bank and went to mikki d's and target... it was a fun day out running around with her and getting things done. I know she didnt want to go home to mommy because of her demeanor. I think she's moer comfortable with me and my gf due to our emotional state being a little more solid than her mommy crying etc.... and yelling. My daughter I realized, knows more about whats going on than I first thought for a 2.5 year old. I hope my wife plays nice wiht the child visitation and isn't going to use my daughter against me or as a tug of war. I told my wife that it was no longer about me and her or me and my gf... or anything else... it was about taking care of our daughter even though we were apart and making HER happy and healthy. Whether or not that sinks in is debatable.. but I will take any and all steps to make sure my daughter is treated well.
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10-01-2007, 03:48 PM
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Bro that sucks about your life right now but it looks like your staying positive and try to make more time for your daughter because no matter what she is the one that is properly having the toughest time. Dude I am single and 34 and loving life. I don't have to ask my wife if I can go out or buy this or that. I don't deal from drama from the ladies if I remotely suspect that I am dating a crazy lady she will get replaced like a dead pair of batterys. I almost got married once when I was in my early 20s and thank God I did not take that step. I want to get married but I am very picky and stubborn.
All that I have to say is why are moving in with another chick? Why can't you just date and not live together? Dude you need to start listening to Tom Lykesis.
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10-01-2007, 03:59 PM
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RIP Gene
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Now I know how you got your name! I don't deal from drama from the ladies if I remotely suspect that I am dating a crazy lady she will get replaced like a dead pair of batterys. That is some funny sheet  |
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10-01-2007, 04:02 PM
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when you find yourself in a situation like this, you must think to yourself.... What Would
 Do? You did the first thing right by Dumping that Bitch..... second, praise to you for being a man and taking care of your daughter... lord knows the number of boys ( i would call them men but they're not) that do not even have the balls to take care of their own kid(s). i agree with FYM, IMO i would live alone or get a room mate if you cannot afford to live on your own.
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10-01-2007, 04:31 PM
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Good luck to you bro. I went through a similar (if not worse) situation many moons ago.
I was married for 4 years and had a son with my ex when she left me for another guy. OK, fine, whatever. Well, 6 months after we split, she and her new BF disappeared with our son, who was 3 at the time. It took me 11 months and $11,000+ in fees to a private detective to track her down. Before we found her, the court issued warrants for her and an order for my son to be returned to me with full custody. My PD found her hiding in another state and I got my son back. My PD was highly recommended and worked on a contingency basis--if he didn't find my son, I didn't owe him a dime. Well, he found my son and it was the best $11,000 I ever spent. It was the hardest year of my life not knowing where he was and if he was OK. I got through it and I know you can too. Just be strong for your daughter and always remember that she's worth it (I know you know this, but you get what I'm saying). PM me if you ever want to talk bro. We may not know each other, but like I said, I've been there and I'm a good listener.
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10-01-2007, 04:33 PM
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10-01-2007, 04:38 PM
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Good Luck w/ your new life and it sounds like you have your priorities straight in relation to your daughter...
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10-01-2007, 05:16 PM
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Note to self: Don't get married
Another note: What kind of sick bitch slashes your mountain bike tires? Now might be the time to liquidate all your assets and store them in an untraceable offshore bank account. Cancel your credit cards. If you haven't already done so, put a fraud alert on your social security number. Freeze your credit. Do what you have to do, but just make sure she doesn't open new credit cards or take out new lines of cedit in order to run up a lot of debt as some form of vengeance. |
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