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02-15-2008, 08:21 PM
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number7s
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non bike related help
this is serious and idk what to do, a friend of mine has been getting mulested and has ask me not to say anything about it but now the guy has raped her twice since saturday, shes is scared to tell anyone and i cant just sit here and watch this happen, the guy is a year older, i want to talk to someone that can help but idk what to do, ive thought about talkig to her sister or a teacher but idk
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02-15-2008, 08:22 PM
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Report It!!!
If you don't, your not helping. Report it Report it Report it!!! |
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02-15-2008, 08:53 PM
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Fair means I win
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02-15-2008, 08:55 PM
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An Illustrated Scumbag
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02-15-2008, 08:57 PM
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Dude, call the cops man, what's there to question?
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02-15-2008, 09:03 PM
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If this is real, you have got to help her -- she wouldn't have told you if she didn't want your help. If you're unsure about the police, here are some links I just found -- you or she can talk to a hotline. Please help her now.
http://www.23rdstreetstation.org/Important_Links.htm http://www.safeteens101.org/teen_lines.html This one might be the best and it's in your area: Rape Crisis Ctr 505 N Arrowhead Ave # 100, San Bernardino, CA Phone: (760)952-0041 |
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number7s (02-16-2008),
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02-15-2008, 09:03 PM
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 jk.. but serisouly he is a cop if you need help or have questions you can talk to my dad... or PM if you need more info?.. |
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02-15-2008, 09:04 PM
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report it!!!!, if the guy is smaller than you I would personally Fvck him up, that is a fvcked up thing to do
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02-15-2008, 09:20 PM
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REPOrt it
See my PM and report it asap...
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02-15-2008, 09:21 PM
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No pain no gain
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02-15-2008, 09:52 PM
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trail-male for hire...
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02-15-2008, 10:31 PM
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Agree on reporting it.
Here's how simple it is: Call the police. Tell them what you just told us. Hopefully, they'll want to go to her house to speak with her. They'll speak with her. And although she may initially be mad at you, she'll end up telling the police what happened. It'll help if she has some kind of evidence, so if she has any (I won't go into detail, but I'm sure you know what I mean) it'll make it easier to prosecute. Please, do this as soon as possible. She will greatly appreciate it in time. Although scared, her first effort of reaching out was telling you. Please help her follow up with doing what needs to be done. Who knows who else this guy is doing the same thing to. It could be someone's daughter, sister, girlfriend, or even wife.
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02-16-2008, 07:21 PM
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number7s
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thanks for all the input it has really helped,
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02-16-2008, 07:34 PM
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Steve Peat Wannabe
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I have to agree with everybody else; REPORT IT!!! If this was happening to you, wouldn't you want somebody to help you? And like 2wheel_lee said; initially, she may be mad at you, but she'll thank you in the end.
Hope this stops soon! |
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02-17-2008, 02:33 PM
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I hope you, her sister or the rape hotline counselors can persuade her to report it. If not, and you don't want to report it directly yourself, then tell a teacher like you were thinking. A teacher is required to report it, and Child Protective Services will investigate right away. She may be pissed at you at first if you're the only one she's told, but she needs protection and you're the only one who can help.
Please let us know that she gets help. |
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02-17-2008, 02:36 PM
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If you don't report it you're almost as wrong as this guy is. You've got to report it and you got to do it NOW!!!
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02-17-2008, 05:31 PM
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Tell someone kid! Even a teacher. Tell an adult right away. Someone you trust! This guy could kill her. Guys that do this can do even worse things. She needs to be protected and this is a chance for you to save her life.
You may be the only chance she gets! HURRY!!
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